Sugar-N-Spice

Why us in more detail ?

Many say why do you not take cash:

Anyone taking cash can screw you out of your money or can forget they took your cash.....you will have receipt w my site.
Accepting CC you must have a proven business history which I do with my Tax ID as my business name for these events for over 10 years now & paying taxes
Anyone taking cash for events was obviously banned from using CC & can only take cash payments are red flags people.
Should there be a problem at event with other guests we have their information.
We also use a ticket company who keeps my money in Escrow this protects you.
We do not use eventbrite or the other ones which we all know sends you tons of spam...We do not track you or spam you. yes sure I send out newsletters but that is it for events.
CC bill will come up private

Thank you have fun at our event

Security

Our dedicated professional security team is on‑site to ensure a safe and discreet environment. Please refrain from engaging in prolonged or casual conversations with security personnel or Hotel staff—they are focused on their duties, and unnecessary interaction could compromise their effectiveness.

Typically, we assign two to three security staff members per hotel venue. Their responsibilities include managing party entrances and monitoring exits to prevent unauthorized or under‑age individuals from accessing the event, whether intentionally or inadvertently.

Because these gatherings are VIP and low‑profile, it’s essential that you do not initiate conversations with hotel guests not part of event when they are partial Hotel Take over events. Even if they seem friendly, avoid taking the bait. Maintaining discretion helps keep our events secure and out of the public eye.

Please keep our events under the radar

Accurate Attendance Lists

We keep our attendee lists clean and reliable. Anyone who signs up randomly or hasn’t purchased a ticket will be removed, ensuring that only confirmed guests appear on the roster.

Just because you see a limited # of names on one list, rest assured that our events sell out quickly and are always filled to capacity. You can be sure there are more attending than you see unless you are checking every single list. We have many platforms. In addition to our primary list, we maintain supplemental rosters from partner platforms such as Swing.com, Kassidie.com, a BDSM site and others.

Enjoy the event—and stay safe!

Features

Please be sure to visit our benefits to Premium Membership.

We are adding new features as we just started this site 2025. Learning and changing accordingly.

Rules

* Make sure you read my rules this is mandatory for all period !!!

Plus you will be required to sign Waiver & Rules forms when attending events. These forms are sent in email to anyone who buys tickets for Hotel Take over events. You will be required to sign these at check in every time thank you.

PSSOM

I did not get rid of PSSOM.com nor did we get rid theme song Pour some Sugar on Me. My original group was called PSSOM , Pour some Sugar on Me. Which is still how I do buniess. So people PSSOM.com still exists just new.

But Pour some sugar on me ....must move forward and that is this website. This host Splash. Sugar & Spice... Splash is 1,000 times better than Eventbrite as you all get tons of spam. Not with this site and it comes up private on credit cards when you buy tickets.

So here is thing and why New name. We get a lot saying, Oh is that the old peoples group when we say PSSOM and some other I do not like.

So please support me to move forward in 2026 with a BANG...New plan promises to bring new surprises.

I place new easter egss all on the site go find all the new features, two in particular.

I need to move in forward direction. Because past events have not been profitable. Really for me it is more love and passion for the lifestyle.

Thank you! All of you....

You all have been so much help. But 2026 & forward will be all positive thinking and vibes

But please help me bring in future and not worry about the past.